Interested by Black Hair
All I did was ask a simple question about black hair and I used to be attacked. Not as soon as did I say I laughed at her, not once did I state it was wrong or distasteful. I particularly stated I can understand change. It is a rattling shame when one can not ask a question about one other race with out immediately being accused of hatred or being disrespectful. If anyone was being disrespectful, it was all of you that attacked me. Now…why the attack
whoever it was most likely took it the incorrect means because there are lots of racists on the market and its getting arduous to inform them apart from type people. im sorry that happened to you though.
Simply because Individuals Suck!
I assume its asian pride.
they’re just plain racists!!!! they’re so frightened that we’re going to make fun of them, so earlier than we even speak, they need to make a silly remark to us and the way stupid white persons are and stuff like that. am i right
This seems attention-grabbing…but for my part you get attacked over any little factor lately, when it is bought nothing to do with being racist or otherwise..it’s the way in which issues are at the minute unfortunataly.
There are alot of racists on the market, and I assume people took it as a racial comment. Don’t worry about it! As long as you didn’t imply it that way, no one cares. 🙂
Say it extra politely next time and do not sound so racist. Then you will not get attacked!
I’m married to an afro american man and I am Caucasian. The first time I met his daughters I needed to ask easy methods to consult with how they take care of their hair. The simplest and least controversial solution to ask about it it to ask about “ethnic” hair.
I didn’t see your original query. I do know that typically saying something about another race could be interpreted as prejudiced, even when it is the farthest factor from it! I just regarded it up and responded to it.
It is an effective question although. Some black individuals prefer to lighten their pores and skin, for whatever their purpose may be and some white people prefer to darken their skin, for no matter their cause might be. To each their very own…..Cannot all of us simply get along :)))
i dont know some individuals get so defensive on here jeez..
Why are you continue to asking about it Why do you care about what individuals you won’t ever meet assume about you
idk alot of individuals take things the improper manner and get freakin mad about it. so don’t fret about it, if folks want to get pissed about it then allow them to just ask long as you understand what you meant!!
some of us are simply ignorant that manner ( no arduous feelings)!!!
trust, in the event you have been to ask me about it i would not get mad. if this was your query the reason why we at all times put grease in our hair is as a result of it is dry and when it will get dry it falls out.
It would seem to some that the way you paraphrased your question was found to be offensive to their nature. I, nevertheless, noticed it differently and have answered accordingly. I’m not attempting to be the great man, but am simply stating my opinion in observation.
properly i simply noticed your query and you did not phrase it out nicely so perhaps that is why your are being assault. additionally if she had blonde hair and inexperienced eyes who’s to say that is a white ladies traits. i’ve identified alot of latina’s with blonde hair and inexperienced eyes we can make ourself look any we need to.
I read your authentic query and I’m puzzled as to why you’d even ask such a query. I can settle for that you meant no disrespect by it, but maybe you must take into consideration the tone by which you used. I am a black lady with pure inexperienced eyes. As a matter of reality I’ve family members who dye their hair blonde also. You have to understand that there are a number of and sometimes conflicting images of what beauty is. So it’s only natural that what others may view as strange be oddly stunning to others. I feel that it’s best to do a little analysis earlier than you ask such a racially charged assertion subsequent time. There are thousands of girls of shade who’ve pure traits not sometimes viewed as “their very own” and vice versa. It’s okay, I perceive the place you had been coming from. i feel it’s actually ignorant to argue what is a black trait and what’s a white trait. With the world being such a melting pot, that thought must be banished anyway.
I simply read your question and really it sounds such as you and the individuals you work with have an issue with things you do not understand or perhaps are intimidated about. You said she was the joke on everybody’s lips all evening and that is a person none of you ever met earlier than. You all took one take a look at her outdoors appearance and down proper judged her for no cause. Nobody clearly bought to know her for the person she is. You might have found her to be an incredible friend. She might have let you in on some issues, since you’re so “ethnic curious” she might answer all your questions without you being attacked. I’ve caucasion friends they usually ask me questions on a regular basis and vice versa and we don’t assault one another because we are buddies. Certainly one of my dearest mates is married to a black man and she is probably the most open minded person I know as a result of she had white guys beating the crap out of her for years and met him and he is the sweetest man she has ever known. Goes against every thing you ever heard I guess Nicely someone ought to have let you know a long time in the past that it isn’t what coloration a persons skin is( and think about that the subsequent time you go for a tan) or their eye shade that makes them a person, it has to do with character and what’s in a person’s heart. Good folks come in every shade and so do dangerous individuals. You and your co employees proved that by making enjoyable of a stranger. You do not know what’s going on in her life if she is working temp to begin with and then to get there and have a bunch of individuals make her really feel even more uncomfortable. Wow, so mature!!! And where do you reside anyway within the backhills someplace referring to her style as “white cosmetics” seems like one thing from Mississippi Burning or the 1920’s the place they’d the “white’s solely” signs posted. Possibly it’s best to get together with the inexperienced contact makers and counsel they put up it on the bins “for whites only” LOL. Consider me, no one is even dwelling that way anymore, travel and see the world, and you will note that range is in sweetie, racism and mockery are a factor of the previous. I hope one day when you have got youngsters you educate them these values or they will be screwed up in life…..